THE TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

All relationships can go through difficult periods in which partners disagree on specific issues. Problems in a relationship can vary widely depending on the couple. The solutions to the problem also depend on each individual's willingness to problem-solve and improve the relationship.

Marriage can be tough and making one work takes a lot of patience, time, and care. When a marriage goes bad, it can be hard to pinpoint the problem and make the effort to get it back on track. Sometimes making a marriage work seems like a never ending battle when issues arise in the relationship that make both partners unhappy.

Here are some tips for fixing an unhappy marriage and making it better so that you and your spouse can live a good life together again.

Remember that love is a verb. Choose to love your spouse for better or for worse.

•   Communicate even if it results in an argument. Choose a private place and a time when you won't be  interrupted.

Outlaw any name calling, references to past history, and cheap shots during the argument. Stick to the issue at hand.

Listen to your spouse attentively without interruption. Pay attention to the emotions that lie behind the words and body language. Do not try to change those feelings or offer solutions; just validate them by listening.

Don't go to bed angry at each other. Call a truce before bedtime. Most things look better in the morning.

Take action. Do something every day that shows your love for your spouse even if you don't feel love. Love has a funny way of creeping back into the picture.

Remember that the bond of love grows even stronger after you've survived difficult times.

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The Ultimate Relationship Solution

Many people in relationships where cheating has taken place believe that breakups are the only possible solution to the problem. We've been conditioned to believe that for women, a cheating husband or boyfriend is the ultimate relationship no-no. It's worse than the old uh-oh, oh-no, and oops you'll come across on any given day and twice on Sunday in the eyes of many women.

However, a breakup is only a solution to the problems that cheating creates (or in most cases reveals) if you choose for it to be a solution. In other words, you have the power here.
You can let it be the end of your relationship or you can dig deep down inside and find the strength it will take to turn this relationship lemon of a situation into some of the sweetest lemonade you've ever had the pleasure of sippin'.

Letting go of the Fairy Tale
You are the only one who can let a cheating boyfriend be the end of your dreams of happily ever after with the man of your dreams. The problem is that we have these expectations that are born of fairy tales.
Women want Prince Charming. You want the handsome prince to swoop in and sweep you off your feet. The problem doesn't arise until you realize that even Mr. Charming has a few warts of his own. The illusion is shattered and problems arise for the sake of the relationship.
Sometimes it takes being with another woman for him to truly appreciate the woman he has at home. He might think the grass is greener elsewhere. But, once he's sampled that other grass he realizes that the grass is much better where at home with you.
Rewriting Your Own Happy Ending
You don't have to give up the fairy tale ideal completely. You can still enjoy your happily ever after if your handsome prince has cheated on you.
Your first instinct may have been to send your prince packing. Now that you've had time to think things through you've had a change of heart right? Your problem may be that he thinks he's moved on without you.
The good news is that it isn't easy for men and women to just turn off their emotions and move on after a relationship has ended. Time is on your side for the moment. What you need to know and understand fully though is that you are the only one who can let your boyfriend's cheating completely derail your relationship.

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