THE TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

All relationships can go through difficult periods in which partners disagree on specific issues. Problems in a relationship can vary widely depending on the couple. The solutions to the problem also depend on each individual's willingness to problem-solve and improve the relationship.

Marriage can be tough and making one work takes a lot of patience, time, and care. When a marriage goes bad, it can be hard to pinpoint the problem and make the effort to get it back on track. Sometimes making a marriage work seems like a never ending battle when issues arise in the relationship that make both partners unhappy.

Here are some tips for fixing an unhappy marriage and making it better so that you and your spouse can live a good life together again.

Remember that love is a verb. Choose to love your spouse for better or for worse.

•   Communicate even if it results in an argument. Choose a private place and a time when you won't be  interrupted.

Outlaw any name calling, references to past history, and cheap shots during the argument. Stick to the issue at hand.

Listen to your spouse attentively without interruption. Pay attention to the emotions that lie behind the words and body language. Do not try to change those feelings or offer solutions; just validate them by listening.

Don't go to bed angry at each other. Call a truce before bedtime. Most things look better in the morning.

Take action. Do something every day that shows your love for your spouse even if you don't feel love. Love has a funny way of creeping back into the picture.

Remember that the bond of love grows even stronger after you've survived difficult times.

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